How long?

[WejMurf]

How long does it take when you make love to your spouse?

I guess this is an unscientific poll. From the time you begin, incl foreplay and all that fun stuff, until you go wash up, how long does it take?

In my case, a quickie is a half hour. Anything else is an hour or longer. I wonder because we haven't had sex much lately bc DW is always going to bed so late and if she's still intersted at all, neither of us in the mood for 60-90 minutes of fun from 12:30 to 2AM. I'm up at 6AM!

Does anybody else have a similar situation?

[random guy]

According to those who wrote here that foreplay stats in the kitchen, we've made love a few weeks in a row...

Seriously, it can take anywhere between 5 minutes (or it feels like 5?) and hmmm, lets see, i would take a fair guess and say somewhere around 4 hours.

But what you say definitely happens, after busy schedules and working a whole day, getting up early etc. we humans tend to get affected by tiredness.

[Shu]

Have had three minutes, when we were both so hyped that it took me 1.5, and had four hours. There is nothing that says you must do 30 minutes... OP, keep the foreplay up all day, touching, texting, etc. and then go for a ten min thing.

[guest43421]

Wow 4 hours, i always wish it would last longer, but my wife is the one who usually gets tierd after a few minutes

[S]

Then I'd guess you need to figure out what can make it feel better for her. If you can make it into an activity that she looks forward to, it'll probably last longer...