How do Divorced People cope with no Sex?

[Just curious]

Hi,

I would like to know. I know their are may of us out there. How do divorced people cope without a partmer. We are all dying for sex. What do we do when we dont have a partner?

[Brittney]

Just curious.... are you a guy or a girl??? I am gonna find myself in that situation really soon and its practically a given that i'm gonna fail the test. I know I shud be strong but I think I can cover my tracks well and need sex.

[Just Curious]

I am a woman.
Brittney - Who do you plan to have sex with? Jews / non-Jews? With protection? Did you have sex out of your marriage? Please explain.

[S]

I know that in a way it's more difficult for divorced singles, but what about never-married singles, some of whom have had sexual experience, and realized it was wrong?

I can speak and tell you that it IS possible. Despite the desire for both the physical pleasure and the emotional connection, it is possible to move forward in life. And once you fully take that step of giving up looking for it outside marriage, life can become much clearer.

Find someone you can talk to about this - be it a therapist, a rav, a mentor. Someone who has the wisdom to show you what you probably already know - a sexual encounter will not leave you feeling better about yourself in the long run - or even the short run.

I wish you the best of luck, and please remember - you ARE strong enough.

[just curious]

Actually I am the original just curious, and both my wife and I were wondering, we have a divorced friend and always want to know how he goes home alone every night no matter how deeply craving for love he may be. We would never really know but I seriously doubt he has had sex since his divorce.